I have this friend, one that I go way back with. But we have a problem. Or at least I have a problem. She always says "we should get together and go out soon". I agree and set a date. She says she'll call and we'll confirm the plans. She never calls back. Or if she does it will be days later. And nine times out of ten when she does call it's because she needs a favor. Recently she called and asked for a BIG favor. For the first time I said no. I simply cannot do it. On the one hand I feel bad and want to help her out but I also feel used. The funny thing is she has often complained to me about a friend of hers that never calls when she says she will or blows off their plans. I have trouble biting my tongue. I'm getting pretty tired of it though. Truthfully we aren't terribly close but we do go back a long way. I'm wondering if it's worth it to have a confrontation or if I just ignore it and chalk it up to how it's going to be with her.